Seriously folks, I am not condemning any particular kind of lifestyle here, but if your favorite character happens to be the opposite gender of you, find someone else to cosplay. It’s not about gender roles and blah, blah, blah. It’s about maintaining the integrity of the character that someone poured themselves into creating. And more to the point, it’s about you screwing that up by being the ugliest dude in the universe cosplaying a female character. So please…don’t. Just don’t.